My Mother - My mother means the world to me. She has been my biggest supporter and I have always looked up to her. She always told me to "never let anyone burst your bubble" letting me know that I can do anything I set my mind to do and not to let anyone discourage me from it. Watching her battle and beat Breast Cancer and then being faced with several other medical problems as a result of her Cancer treatments has given me the motivation I have needed when I have thought about giving up or something. She has always had a smile on her face and a positive attitude and is a wonderful example of a mother. 
My Grandmother - My grandmother always made me feel special as a child and continues up into my adulthood. She has always told me how proud she was of me and how much she loved me. Anytime that I have needed her she has always been there whether it be to pick me up from school when I was sick or coming to one of my track meets to cheer me on at the finish line. I am blessed to have her still in my life and to also have her in my children's lives so that they will also know how great and special she is to me. 
My Aunt Alys - My aunt always made me feel special by making sure my hair was braided and that I was wearing the latest hair styles. She is the reason I am able to now comb and braid my daughters hair. When I was in middle school she would let me have my "most special days." These were weekends that no one else was allowed to come over to her house and she would give me all of her attention. This was very important to me because my aunts house was the "place to be" and for not anyone else to be able to come over was a big deal. 
My Aunt Shirley - My aunt provided a fun loving environment for my brother and I to stay in two or three times a week while my parents were attending meetings at church or my mom was attending class while my dad was at work. She never made us feel as if we were burdens and welcomed with open arms. Best of all she taught us how to ride the bus and shop using coupons. 
It sounds like you had some amazing, strong women role models in your life! I also grew up with strong women that I attribute my confidence and strong will to. I think think that it is so important that your Aunt Alys gave you that special one on one time. I have three children now and I am always worried that they don't get enough one on one time. We spend a lot of time as a family, but not a lot of time appreciating each child individually. It was great to see how much this time meant to you, as I will try to make this a higher priority in our lives. Thanks for your post.
ReplyDeleteYour post brings back great memories. I too have an aunt that used to braid my hair. She would have intricate styles, and add beads! I loved the sound of them, when I'd swing my head from side-to-side.
ReplyDeleteI love how your aunt taught you valuable life skills and had fun with you at the same time. She sounds like a special woman. Thanks for sharing! :)
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